This is a sensitive subject and it may raise questions- however that is no bad thing.

Boundary crossing happens in many ways. And when we are young, it can happen easily and in many subtle ways. We may have a feeling that we were intruded upon in some way- but we dont have the physical proof for this. Nothing was ever done to us physically. Yet the feeling does not leave.

If that is a feeling you have there may have been some intrusion on a psychic level. More and more there is an awareness of the power of thoughts and thought forms. On the positive it is these thought forms that form the basis of distance healing, prayers. This is how we know who is on the end of the phone before it rings or can feel someone thinking about us. It is often how Lovers stay so connected- through the intensity of their thought forms.

On the other side these thought forms can also have a detrimental impact. What we send out in our thoughts affects people. Say you grew up in a family where boundaries were being crossed all the time energetically- this is something you may well have picked up on as child- with a sense of discomfort. A sexual thought projected towards a child- can be felt by that child- specially the very sensitive and can leave a feeling of intrusion for years and confusion.

This happens all the time in our culture- we are constantly bombarded with sexualised images and so the first place we are led by mainstream media is into the sexual. Add to this a mix of alcohol or drugs and that means that boundaries are even more being eroded and with no knowledge. It is possible for us to be picking up on intrusive thought forms all the time. Some we may enjoy even- more likely many will leave us feel like we have been attacked or invaded in some way.

If you have always had an unsettled feeling around a childhood memory or another time in your life- where you feel like you were invaded in some way. It may be worth doing some meditative work around this- either by yourself or with a trained practitioner- to uncover the feelings and memories you may have. Even if its just a feeling- its important to honour this feeling- because otherwise it can lead to feelings of guilt, shame. It can even manifest as an inability to be intimate, open to life and relationships. It is always worth exploring those emotions that lie deep in us.

Psychic intrusion is very real and can be very painful to understand and so it is important that these sensations are honoured.

Why does this happen? Well often because in some way we are either unaware of the power of our thoughts or because we are not in control of them. Sometimes it can be intentional and sometimes it can be unintentional. And why does one end up on the receiving end? Because on some level one was too open energetically and psychically. As an adult because we have not maintained strong enough boundaries in all areas of our lives. And if when younger- then because children are naturally open.

And how to heal this? Often some form of healing will be able to reclaim some Power and perhaps even Soul Loss around the incident. Personally I have found Shamanic Healing to be the most effective. Though there may be other forms of healing that resonate also.

This is a profound topic- that shall require more than one post- however I bring this up for now- simply to bring it to the surface. More to explore later. And should you have any questions from this- please email me.