This is a nonsense busting post. Because it seems as if for all the incredible truth and potency out there at the moment, there is also a similar amount of confusion and frankly nonsense.

The twin flame union. Does anyone really categorically know what this is and is anyone really entitled to tell another what this is? I would say, not really. Like anything in life, it is to do with our own personal experiences and circumstances.

What is the twin flame union? The union is Sacred Union. This means it is a union of body, mind, soul and all energetic bodies. It is a union across time and space, across lifetimes, it is a union that brings us back to Source and so to who we truly are. It is a union of fundamentally unconditional love, for self and for others. It is a union of service to mankind and to being the living embodiment of love and service.

Our first templates for this union can be seen in ancient texts, Isis and Osiris, the union of the Gods/Goddesses with man/woman, Yeshua and Mary Magdalene…. The union of the male and female who come together after having cleared all their gunk, after having truly come to know who they are, who come together to be of service, to walk a life path mission together that is for the greater good of all. A union of souls who find they can communicate telepathically, in fact they communicate without even trying because they have been communicating since time began.

Often there will be synchronicity, shared stories and shared ways of seeing the world. And there may well be polar opposites to contend with because this person is the mirror of you, the opposite of you and therefore shall trigger in you all you have not known about yourself.

We do not know if someone is our Beloved from picking up a twin flame card, from getting a psychic reading, from reading a book on twin flames. We know if someone is our Beloved because we just know. And deep down no matter how hard we may try to deny it the truth keeps coming back. We may try and break the ties yet that does not matter, we may try and walk away and yet we cannot. The bond is mutual, the feelings are mutual and perhaps one may deny them, yet if one denies them, then both are denying them on one level, because they are ONE.

You cannot convince someone to be your twin flame, you cannot chase or subdue someone into being your Beloved, this is not how this union works. If you are sitting around obsessing over how to have this person, to get them in your life then you are sadly missing the whole point of the Beloved, which is unconditional love. We ask nothing; we simply love. We love with no expectation and no fan fare, we just love. We honour what our Beloved wants, we honour their needs because in essence their needs are ours also. Maybe needs we are suppressing or denying ourselves.

If someone causes you pain emotionally or physically this is not the union of the Beloveds. The Beloved shall not cause you pain. How can the Beloved do that. The Beloved is you. And even where there are disagreements these will be remedied as quickly as possible because neither of you will want there to be disharmony.

If you are not together the work is not to force a union, we cannot force what needs to happen in its’ own time. If you are not together then the work is to focus on self love and making yourself the finest version of yourself you can. To BE the Beloved that you seek.

If you are together you may find the union is about perfecting and crafting your life path together. What are you here to do for mankind? At its’ simplest that means how shall you together bring more joy and love into the world. It does not have to be some grand master plan to do this or that. You can be here to bring more joy and love by simply being more joyful and loving in your every day life in all you do. That could be enough. 

Some twin flames are not meant to be together in this lifetime. This means one will be communicating from the spirit world. And one will be in the physical world. This is how Yeshua and Mary Magdalene completed their life mission. She was the physical embodiment of the work when he left the earthly plane. Remember this because not all Beloveds are incarnated at the same time.

Then we have those soul mates who come into our lives to teach us some valuable lessons. And often to prepare us for sacred union. And when the lessons have been learned these people usually leave our lives. Such is the ebb and flow of life.

In today’s society we seem afraid to let go. To let go of possessions or people; for fear of what? How can another person be the fulfilment we are seeking when the fulfilment we are seeking is in us? It is us and we can access it any time.

And this is why we embark on a healing journey to come to better know that true love and fulfilment lies in us always and we do not surrender over who we are to another for that is handing over our power.

The Beloved union is one of equals. Neither seeks to dominate, fix or control the other. And we may say we do this, we may say we love unconditionally and the truth will show itself when the other acts in a way we do not like. If we go into judgement or blame then we are not loving unconditionally. Then we are loving with conditions and in those spaces the Sacred cannot dance.

It’s worth asking the next time you may say: why is my twin flame running away from me? What are you running from? And are you loving truly with no conditions? 

And see what answers come to you. The rest is for the heart to know and communicate to you when the time is right. The place to start is inner union. 

There is much more to say and for you to discover on this path, for us all to discover I am sure. For now these words may spark something in you. 

The Beloved cannot come to us until we love all parts of ourselves. The Beloved cannot come to us until we are in a space of Love and Joy. Until we are on our life path. Until we are all that we seek. The Beloved is not about sexual intercourse, intimacy between the Beloveds is out of this world, and for this reason it must be balanced and grounded in the heart. In Truth and in Respect.

You may wish to sit very quietly and simply feel into your heart and ask all the questions you seek answers to that way.

You may wish to visit the meditations page for some journeys that may assist you.

Whatever you seek with the intention to find inner union shall be the right way when done with a pure heart. Sacred Union starts in us. The rewards of such painstaking self reflection and honesty is the love we seek starts to become a daily part of our lives

Blessings

Amber

“…and when one of them meets the other half, the actual half of himself, whether he be a lover of youth or a lover of another sort, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and friendship and intimacy and one will not be out of the other’s sight, as I may say, even for a moment…”

 
― Plato, The Symposium